What it Means to Surrender to a Lover

There’s a difference between surrendering ourselves to a lover or partner

With a crystal clear sense of empowerment

Giving them a permission slip to claim us

In the depth of love that’s shared between two

So that both may fully embody their natural essence

And allowing someone to possess us

Or take ownership over us

This is your invitation for self-inquiry

To peel back the blinds and look inside your relationship

Are you giving yourself away

Allowing them to dictate how you love and wield your body

Or are you actively opening to them in a way

Where they’re able to fully love you in all that you are?

There’s a big difference

And that difference is whether you are the authority over your own heart and body

Or whether you are allowing someone else to be.